Patience is Prettier.

Happy June everyone! I can’t believe I’ve finally made it to this month. Exactly two weeks until I leave for Indy! This is a very busy time, and I wanted to thank everyone for their patience. Not only is attitude a very tricky, and contagious concept, but I think patience is as well. How can I put this…

I am not just some college kid lounging around, going out with friends, and blowing things off. My average day consisted of getting up in the morning, working at the school until around three, then from there going straight to my other job till around eleven o’clock at night, coming home, trying to catch up on blog things, but most of the time I fell asleep. I am a very busy person. Now that school is out, I’ll have little opportunities and small windows of time to get things completed. In basic words; I push myself enough. If you push me, I will push back.

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I’ve encountered some pushiness, and non patience. I understand frustration, but I will not be understanding in these situations. Right now I’m lucky enough to remember to make a blog post! So, patience. This is something that is quickly trickling out of our economy. We have smart phones that process things faster than computers, we have supermarkets with two-hundred cashier lanes open so you can get through faster, we have fast food drive throughs, and we want everything done now. We’re living a life where we don’t really have to be patient. So when the time comes to wait a whole 30 seconds for the internet to load, driving around a wreck, or waiting in line for a spray tan, we FLIP. Patience is a fabulous thing to exhibit. To hear the excuses of “I’m a paying customer” shows me that you value money over respecting another person. To hear “its their job” is another example of the non-respect you have for another person. When you are understanding, show compassion, and take time to evaluate the situation rather than just your feelings on your side of the story it begins to get easier for everyone involved. The other day I waited almost forty-five minutes on just my food. I got a little questionable of what was going on, but was not upset with my waitress, or cooks at all. I was once a waitress that lost an order too. This is life, full of thrown together mishaps, and somehow (maybe) we make it out alive.

Please look around and acknowledge the humans around you. Exactly that, they are human. Patience was built into your body. Start exercising, and practicing it more; I’m having to work on it too.

Thank you again for everyone’s patience.

Congrats to Karla, our Hazel Grace contest winner! TFiOS comes out FRIDAY! Our song of the week is Icarus by White Hinterland. Perfect, breathable summer song.

-haley.

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Attitude Adjustments.

Attitude; Thats such a negative word to me. In fact, I just had discussions with some of my fifth grade girls, and how they are over loaded with it. I make them think that because they are growing up they need to learn how to drop this so-called attitude, but who am I kidding? It only gets worse with age sometimes.

This simple little moody word has a lot of power behind it. It’s a force of destruction, a glimmer of hope, and a knife in someone’s heart. When you step back, really look at yourself, and evaluate how you communicate with people you start to see that without actions, you’re left with your words only. Your ONLY communication. Your attitude; It can take a life of its own, and overpower you if it wants. What vibe are you giving off? How are you communicating? Whats overpowering you?

I’ve seen so much attitude lately that it completely blocks off any actual communication. People just don’t want to listen, they just want to be mad. They want to jam their words into people’s feeble ears, and make their points boldly. In return, you were never heard. I’ve seen humans with such bad attitudes that the oxygen in their nose is no longer beneficial because spiritually, and emotionally they just cant believe in themselves, or others. I’ve always said you had to drop barriers to let the good overcome you. Nothing will happen with a door shut. Drop it, open a door, and open your ears. Listening to others more than  you speak, being patient more than being forceful, looking for improvement rather than making points is so much more helpful.

Attitude; it can be a lifesaver. Literally. I had such a bad one about my disease. I really wanted to just exist within it rather than fight it. Developing, listening, improving really did change things. It changed my outlook, it changed my attitude. I became a teacher instead of a cop. I felt like instructing, and listening more than I did pointing out error. Some of us even had to make attitude adjustments about wearing our oxygen, me included. My attitude saved my life. Step back, and really evaluate yours this week. Is it worth changing? Because you are worth it.

Congrats to Karla, our contest winner! Thank you to everyone who submitted a “Hazel Grace” picture! They are all so beautiful. Our song of the week is So Many Details by Toro y Moi. Enjoy!

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-haley.

St. Patricks Day

Happy St Patrick’s Day my loves!

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So this post is about to get really cheesy, real quick. But it’s definitely been something that’s bugging me so I’m going to make it short and sweet.

It is so easy to get really negative when your daily life is tracking pills, paying off medical bills and visiting doctors weekly to have your blood checked. And even for someone who doesn’t have a disease, just living in this economy can get you on a grumpy track really easily. I’m just straight up tired of turning on the TV, getting on Facebook or even going to work and hearing about all the negativity. Just stop, end of story. You are in charge of your own life so stop letting someone else affect your attitude towards everything. I think it’s really funny how we always talk about finding a pot of gold at the end of rainbows, and yes we all know that we can’t really drive to one and magically find it. But come to think of it I’ve never heard of finding pots of gold at the end of a thundercloud. Rainbows are a symbol of happiness, our children like them and when we see them…we smile. You will never find your happiness or pot of gold by always being a little black rain cloud. Get on the right track, get positive (find your rainbow) and I promise that will lead the way. Turn off the TV, get in control of YOUR life and just be happy. Happiness is a choice and some of us need to make our decision. Now if you’ll excuse me, I’m off to have a glass of wine.

-haley.