Happy June everyone! I can’t believe I’ve finally made it to this month. Exactly two weeks until I leave for Indy! This is a very busy time, and I wanted to thank everyone for their patience. Not only is attitude a very tricky, and contagious concept, but I think patience is as well. How can I put this…
I am not just some college kid lounging around, going out with friends, and blowing things off. My average day consisted of getting up in the morning, working at the school until around three, then from there going straight to my other job till around eleven o’clock at night, coming home, trying to catch up on blog things, but most of the time I fell asleep. I am a very busy person. Now that school is out, I’ll have little opportunities and small windows of time to get things completed. In basic words; I push myself enough. If you push me, I will push back.
I’ve encountered some pushiness, and non patience. I understand frustration, but I will not be understanding in these situations. Right now I’m lucky enough to remember to make a blog post! So, patience. This is something that is quickly trickling out of our economy. We have smart phones that process things faster than computers, we have supermarkets with two-hundred cashier lanes open so you can get through faster, we have fast food drive throughs, and we want everything done now. We’re living a life where we don’t really have to be patient. So when the time comes to wait a whole 30 seconds for the internet to load, driving around a wreck, or waiting in line for a spray tan, we FLIP. Patience is a fabulous thing to exhibit. To hear the excuses of “I’m a paying customer” shows me that you value money over respecting another person. To hear “its their job” is another example of the non-respect you have for another person. When you are understanding, show compassion, and take time to evaluate the situation rather than just your feelings on your side of the story it begins to get easier for everyone involved. The other day I waited almost forty-five minutes on just my food. I got a little questionable of what was going on, but was not upset with my waitress, or cooks at all. I was once a waitress that lost an order too. This is life, full of thrown together mishaps, and somehow (maybe) we make it out alive.
Please look around and acknowledge the humans around you. Exactly that, they are human. Patience was built into your body. Start exercising, and practicing it more; I’m having to work on it too.
Thank you again for everyone’s patience.
Congrats to Karla, our Hazel Grace contest winner! TFiOS comes out FRIDAY! Our song of the week is Icarus by White Hinterland. Perfect, breathable summer song.